A fashion retail supervisor with ‘painful’ 34HH boobs claims a female doctor told her not to get a reduction – as she knows women ‘that have paid thousands to have lovely breasts like yours’.
Victoria Gilbert said she went to visit her GP for a check-up in March 2020 and described how her 8lb breasts cause chronic back pain and red welts on her skin.
The 28-year-old was flabbergasted when the ‘disappointed’ doctor reportedly told her not to have a breast reduction as they’re ‘lovely’ and that many would pay for a bigger bust like hers.
Stunned Victoria has made repeated visits to other GPs about reduction surgery over the last 10 years and said she was simply advised to lose weight and when she lost some weight was eventually offered physio.
But even when 5ft 4 Victoria managed to lose two-and-a-half stone in 2016 she went up a cup size – making her reconsider whether she would have kids in future for fear her breasts will continue to grow.
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Determined to live a happy, fulfilling life Victoria is planning to get the operation done privately in the UK.
Victoria, from Brentford, West London, said: “I’d made a comment along the lines of ‘I don’t like my boobs, they’re just a bit too big’ and that’s when she looked at me and she said ‘but they’re lovely, people would pay thousands [for them].
“I know women that have paid thousands to have breasts like yours. Don’t get a reduction, they’re lovely.
“There’s a tone in women’s voices where it’s like ‘oh I’m just trying to make you feel better’ but it wasn’t that.
“It was very serious, almost like she was disappointed that I was thinking of making them smaller.
“I was just shocked it was a woman and a professional saying it to me and didn’t say anything.
“It’s something I’d expect from a man but not a woman and I think if it was a man I would have given him some hell.
“I was so surprised it was a woman and a professional saying it to me. I think it took me until I got home to realise what had been said to me.
“I felt really, really angry and hurt. It made me think ‘how am I going to get this breast reduction if the person that I need to go to to help me get it done doesn’t believe I should have one?’.”
Victoria Gilbert, from Brentford, West London, said she went to visit her GP for a check-up in March 2020 and described how her 8lb breasts cause chronic back pain and red welts on her skin
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Victoria, who lives with social media marketing partner Oscar Stockdale, 25, approached her GP 10 years ago to see if she could get a reduction on the NHS – but has been suffering with breast-related issues since puberty.
Not only did she have to face the physical pain but also the emotional turmoil from cruel kids who teased her.
Victoria said: “When I was a kid I was so excited to get breasts. I thought ‘yay I’m going to have boobs and be pretty and cool’ and then they were bigger than everyone else’s.
“I was a double-D at 14. I remember thinking ‘this is a bit big but maybe they’ll stop’.
“The first time I got upset about it I went to measure for a new bra at the age of 14 and I was an E.
“I just started crying there and then with my mum in the changing room, I remember thinking ‘this seems like it’s not stopping, why are they still growing?’.
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“At school I remember mostly girls being mean. Girls would shame and bully me and boys would harass me online for pictures.
“Due to this I suffer with body dysmorphia, I look at myself and see a monster.
“I refused to do dance and PE, which was quite sad because I used to love dance as a kid.
“I felt very self-conscious and very embarrassed. I just felt gross, I never had a bra that kept me in properly.
“If they were bouncing around I would feel that everybody was staring at me.
“I didn’t feel comfortable with it and I got to the point where I said ‘I’m no longer doing PE and dance classes and there’s nothing you can do’.
Victoria has been suffering with breast-related issues since puberty
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“My mum had to come into school with me and talk things out. In the end I was allowed to catch up with English and maths instead of doing PE and dance.
“Working in retail the back pain was the worst. I found it hard to be one my feet for longer than two hours.
“I was able to over time build up stamina but eventually I got a bit better and I could stand a bit longer.
“I once pulled my lower back and it was really bad. Every time I bent over it was such a sharp pain.
“I went to the doctor and said that I thought my lower back was killing me due to bad posture because of my boobs’.”
Victoria, then a size double-F, first went to her GP in 2011 at the age of 18 to make enquiries about a reduction op but claims she was simply told she needed to lose weight.
Five years later Victoria dropped two-and-a-half stone and was told that she could have physio – one of the first steps on her breast reduction journey – but bizarrely went up to a double-G cup size.
The back-strengthening exercises Victoria did in physiotherapy didn’t help, and she claims after a few months the physiotherapist conceded that she needed the operation.
Victoria said: “The first time I went to a GP they told me to just lose weight, it felt like a hurtful brush-off.
“The second time I went I was 23, at this point I’d lost quite a bit of weight.
“I was told I was within the bracket and I would have to do physio and get her breasts checked every couple of months to record what size I was.
“I did the physio for a few months but by the end the physiotherapist said it seemed like I needed the breast reduction.
“It’s so frustrating that even losing weight didn’t change my boobs. The time I lost weight they went up a cup size, they do seem to just keep growing.
“I’m not even sure I want children because my boobs are just going to get bigger.”
After 14 years of hating how her boobs look and feel, Victoria, who is forced to squeeze into size 18 tops, has decided to take matters into her own hands and is fundraising to get surgery done privately.
Victoria Gilbert, 28, and 25-year-old boyfriend Oscar Stockdale
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Victoria said: “After 14 years of crying, aching and hating myself I now believe my best option is to seek private health care.
“I didn’t even think of fundraising for it myself, it was a friend who suggested it. I find it very hard asking for help but after a few months that suggestion was rattling around in my brain.
“Between that and what that female doctor said to me I just thought ‘maybe I should just give it a go and see what happens’.
“I’ve done some research and also spoken to a clinic in London, they said it would be between £6,500 and £7,500.
“It would be a life-changing operation for me, I look at them and I’m grossed out by them.
“It will feel like I can just do all sorts of things and not worry about my boobs getting in the way.
“My back won’t hurt from doing something for too long and I’ll just be able to look at myself in the mirror and like how I look.
“Oscar is wonderful, he said if he had the money he would just pay for it in one go. He loves my body as it is but he also completely gets it.
“He’s not in love with my boobs, he’s in love with me.”
A spokesperson for the NW London CCGs in relation to the doctor’s recent alleged comment regarding Victoria’s breasts, said: “Neither the CCG or the practice have had direct correspondence from Ms Gilbert on this matter. The practice would welcome the opportunity to hear and respond to Ms Gilbert’s concerns directly.
“We expect all our GPs to practise in accordance with the GMC guide on Good Medical Practice for example, adequately assessing a patient’s condition, treating them as individuals and respecting their dignity.”
A spokesperson for NHS Dorset CCG in relation to Victoria’s claims of a decade of repeat visits to doctors regarding breast reductions, said: “We’re sorry to hear of this experience and would urge anyone who is unhappy with services they receive to contact us directly to discuss the issue.
“Treatments and surgeries of these kinds are handled on a case by case basis set against key criteria which is outlined in our policies.
“We are always more than happy to listen to concerns and take action if required.”
You can donate online to Victoria’s page here.
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